Jul 25

Welcome friends and fellow warriors. We are delighted that you are interested to know more about us and our cutting edge 7 Step System to happiness. Over the last 21 years, we have discovered, birthed and refined this innovative system. When applied, these tools will instantly make a huge difference in your life, setting you on a trajectory of unprecedented joy. We recognize this is a bold statement to make, however, we can 100% guarantee this claim. Successfully tested by us and many others, these tools are now ready for you to implement so that you too can soar. Our transformed life is our testimonial.

Cary & Wendy

We extend our heartfelt gratitude to many of the great giants who came before us, particularly Dan & Heather Jordan who brought to us the gift of the powerful Map of Choice.

Our focus is to reach anyone in the world who is aching to step out of their pain, fear, blame, doubt, worry, anxiety, depression, numbness, illness and move into lasting genuine happiness with a deep sense of love and purpose. We are excited to let you know how to literally transform whatever ails you. The era of the never-ending “onion peel” is over. Hallelujah!

This system of creating happiness works for everyone, whether you are in an intimate relationship or not.

Our Story

We both know what it’s like to live in an immense amount of pain and unhappiness. In 2001, we hit a wall. We shockingly found ourselves after 13 years together, on the brink of divorce, shaking us to our core.

We asked ourselves “How the heck did we get here?” We were yoga instructors, massage therapists, self-help workshop presenters, and did many years of our own personal growth work, such as long meditation retreats, couples counseling and more. We still cared for each other but we were dried up, frustrated, and had no idea how to get out of this mess. Deep inside each of us we were still carrying an unending cycle of negative patterns, beliefs and toxic shame that would resurface no matter what we did.

Ironically, at the time we were running an Ayurvedic health spa in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, giving enough enemas for a lifetime! We now can “roast” ourselves of how our menu of life became very limited reflected by our strict organic diet regime.

Cary: “I was haunted by a black cloud of shyness and lack of confidence since childhood. Although I was talented and received recognition through awards and performances with renowned musicians around the world, I was insecure about my abilities as a drummer and percussionist. I still didn’t feel or believe in myself. Later these doubts trailed behind me and amplified into adulthood as I struggled with believing in my ability to be financially successful and to please Wendy intimately.”

Wendy: “I was tormented by years of doubts not feeling ever beautiful enough. I went up and down emotionally with how I looked in the mirror. I struggled with food issues and a deep insecurity about my body image and singing abilities. Nothing I did ever worked to end these painful programs in my head.”

Though the spa was flourishing, we clearly were not. We were driven to get to the bottom of what was ailing us. Hence we closed the spa, sold our house, and just about everything we owned, and moved to the remote desert of southwestern Idaho (where the closest neighbor was 5 miles away). Rattlesnakes, coyotes, badgers, deer and our 2 cats kept us company for 4 years while we lived like monks and steadfastly worked like scientists, alongside our dear friends Dan & Heather Jordan.

This bare boned existence cracked us open to be honest like never before, leading us to develop effective tools to “complete & delete” any and all stories of unhappiness and pain. Our lives became bearable again and like a phoenix rising out of the ashes we began to start a new juicy life individually and as a couple.

We both are excited to share with you that we are no longer living in the heavy black cloud of doubt and despair. We now see that these doubts have always been our friends, training us to become all that we deeply desire, through the power of choice.

The level of doubt equals the level of brilliance awaiting to blossom out of you.

Whoever is reading this, we understand and feel your pain and we know that with your desire to change you can and will break free into glorious states of happiness and success. It may be scary to admit the areas that you are still unhappy, but through this honesty you will crack the code to “end your war” and all your dreams will come true.

Whatever is haunting you, this system will demonstrate how to quickly turn your doubts/fears inside out and pump up your dreams every second of the day.

Through this profound journey, we unearthed and developed this groundbreaking system, and a book Happy 365! – 7 Step Quest to an Intimate Relationship.

As speakers, coaches, consultants, seminar facilitators and international performing artists we are now assisting multitudes of people around the globe how to quickly transform their lives into exceptional happiness, success, while living their dreams. Our clientele ranges from singles, couples, companies, recording and performing artists who are incorporating this innovative technology.

After traveling to many places around the world we have finally found “home” in the luscious garden island of Kaua’i, Hawai’i, where daily we pinch ourselves appreciating the stunning beauty of Kaua’i.

More About Us

Cary Valentine

A Berklee College of Music graduate and award winning worldwide performer. Born in New Jersey, he is an exceptional drummer and dynamic percussionist. He has toured, performed and/or recorded with such artists as Dizzy Gillespie, Trini Lopez, Michael Ruff (Lionel Ritchie, Kenny Loggins), David Pack (Ambrosia), Kevin Cronin (REO Speedwagon), Kevin Griffin (Better Than Ezra), Jeff Dayton (Glen Campbell, Kenny Chesney), and some of Brazil’s renowned musicians: Sa e Guarabyra, Milton Nascimento and Tony Osanah and Hawaiian artists Kenneth Makuakane (Pandanus Club), Makana, Eric Gilliom, Paula Fuga (Jack Johnson) and Jonah Cummings.

He also teaches drums and percussion in person & on-line internationally, inspiring many children and adults. Cary’s love for the arts extends to writing and performing original poetry, and narrating audio books. He produced and narrated the Divine Inspirations of Florence Scovel Shinn.

Wendy Valentine

Sings with an angelic voice, in English, Spanish, Portuguese, Hawaiian, and Japanese, performing on classical guitar, ukulele, and penny whistle. She performs throughout the US and Brazil in a Bossa Nova trio and as a solo artist. A Master’s degree recipient in English-as-a-Second-Language from Boston University, Wendy dedicated 13 years as an elementary school and E.S.L. teacher in the USA, Brazil, Spain and Mexico. A yoga instructor, illustrator and author of two children’s books.

Cary & Wendy perform together as part of the house band with Cindy Combs for the New Russell da Rooster kids TV show, produced by Mark Jeffers and filmed at the Storybook Theatre on Kaua’i. They also run musical residency programs in elementary schools in Hawai’i through the Lotus Arts Foundation. Feel free to check out inspiring musical videos at LotusArtsFoundation.org.

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